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Why not to be afraid of divorce

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Gabriella Diesendorf is blogger from Australia. She loves badgering about beauty, green lifestyle choices and parenting techniques
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Divorce and problems of heart are definitely not the things that are easy to talk about and should never be taken lightly. Still, fearing the act of divorce and losing the partner can only make things worse in the long run. The truth is, no matter how unbelievable it may sound, that the pain of going through the divorce is going to pass sooner or later. On the other hand, the pain of feeling lonely and unappreciated while living together with someone who is undeserving of your love will only continue to grow and become unbearable if nothing is done about it.

Stop the fear of being alone

This is the most common fear when it comes to ending a marriage. Especially so if you settled in a nice and cozy habit of having someone by your side regardless of whether there’s love or not. But think about this carefully – is this really the life that you think you deserve? If you’d wanted a roommate you wouldn’t have gotten married in the first place. There is nothing wrong with being on your own and doing things you want to do for yourself and no one else. Alone does not mean lonely ! Once you start realizing your value, the feeling of loneliness will also disappear. Besides, the feeling of loneliness while in a relationship can cause much more profound pain and unhappiness.

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You will be happy again

When a marriage ends it may feel like you will never find someone to be with and to love you for who you are. Nothing can be further from the truth. You will definitely need some time to get back on your feet and get ready to face the world again, but when that period is over and you start going out more and talk to other people the chances are that you will meet the right person when you least expect it. What’s more, when you spend enough time rethinking your life and with friends who love and support you, your happiness will come back, even without the immediate romantic interest.

There will always be someone that cares for you

Your marriage didn’t work out, but it is not the end of the world. Even though you may live alone in your home you are definitely not abandoned or forgotten. Remember to rely on your friends and family. They will always be there for you. Therefore, even if you decide that it is time for filing for divorce in California or any other country you live in, be sure that the moment you considered this option, the divorce was the right thing to do. You shouldn’t shut yourself in, and should talk to the closest people about this. Moreover, joining support groups and searching online advice can help a lot, as well. If your residence is in the Northwest region you can get useful information on how to file for divorce in Oregon and neighboring countries as well. You will be surprised by how many people have gone through the same things as you, and you can even use their own ways for dealing with pain as an example on how to move on.

The most important thing people have to know is that you have to love yourself first. If things in marriage don’t work for you any more, and the other party doesn’t want to do anything to make things better, then it is time to end it. Getting a divorce is a serious step and, if this is something you considered carefully as an option, this type of a solution is definitely not selfish – it is something necessary for your mental and physical health.

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A great article! Marriage is lovely if it is working and you are still able to be an individual with your own opinions. Marriage suits some and ending a relationship is not something to be done lightly. Ending a marriage is hard but if you have tried to make it work and you still feel yourself sinking in quicksand, you need to bite the bullet.
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